B was under the assumption that she had this under control.
She had her kid's, a home, a car, all she needed was a job and then they would be alright. B's mother suggested she come live with her, but B told her that she wanted to give it a shot on her own first. It was in June, and she wanted to give it till the end of the summer her best chance to get back up on her feet.
B would like her mom to know now, "I'm sorry mom if your resenting me now for making this choice. My intention was never to hurt you by it. My intention was only to grow from it."
now.
B started going to job interviews and putting out her resume. She posted it on career builder and went to Worknet. She walked into bars and filled out applications at businesses. One business in particular hired her and they wanted B to start the same day as her hearing with Missy which was June 26th. She had a choice to make, "do I go to the hearing and testify against Missy or start my new job?" She picked the new job. The reason why she tried to put a restraining order on Missy was because Missy was harrassing them and tried to throw a chair at B.
6/26/2015
That morning B woke up at 5am because She needed to be there at 8am and She didn't want to be late. She was excited to be starting a new job. It was for this telecommunications company called 24/7. This was a call center that took all the incoming calls for companys like Ulta, which was the one B worked for, Kraft, Netflix, Walmart, etc... Today was the first day of training. B was in the shower and getting dressed, it was now 6am and still no Saul. She decided to give him a call and leave a message, "Saul, I hope you are on your way. I am starting my new job today at 8am. I would like to be there at 7am. Please be here to come get the kids."
When 6:30 started to roll around she started to panic. So B brought her kid's over to Wren's house, the neighbor. Wren is the one who told B about the job opening. Wren would get a job bonus if B remained employed with the company after 30 days.
B asked Wren, "Would you mind watching my children so I am not late on my first day? Saul is supposed to be here any minute. I just can't deal with him today and I am already in hot water as it is with him, could you please help me?"
Thank Jesus Wren helped her out. B was successfully able to attain that job and paycheck for the next 5-6 weeks.
B's Narrative monologue
"Hey its better than no weeks. Let me tell you it was the most stressful 6 weeks of my life.
Filled with ups and downs of course. Some of the most happiest and most memorable moments with my two little boy's, mixed with the drama and hatred of my ex-husband. I never knew he would be so spiteful towards me. He always told me he would never hurt me like this, but he did in the worst way imaginable by keeping my precious children from me. I will never forget this for his actions and non actions concerning our family has cut me so deeply.
First, my ex-husband repeatedly cheated on me with two of my best friends. He is currently living with my children and his mistress's children that he was having an affair with. While we were still married he has had a child out of wed lock! My ex has confused my children completely acting like this behavior is acceptable, and does not offer them an explanation or any professional counseling. He see's nothing wrong with the choices he has made.
Second, my ex husband made several false allegations to the judge saying I was mentally unstable when he knew the kids and I were disabled and never chose to acknowledge it.
Three, my ex husband has been physically abusive to us. He has targeted all of us by consistently assaulting us in the head on numerous occasions which in turn triggered my seizure disorder, loss of hearing, loss of sight, and loss of memory which I now have become currently disabled for the rest of my life and has prevented me from maintaing a steady job. Also, resulting in our oldest child having brain surgery at 11 years old, and my youngest being cognitively delayed since 2 year's of age.
Four, my ex-husband was financially draining and suppressive. If I tried to work he would stop working. When I wouldn't work he would degrade me. I would utilize other organizations and resources to make ends meet.
Five my ex husband was emotionally draining, and he broke my spirit, and my heart into a million pieces, stomped on it, chewed on it, swallowed it, regurgitating it, spit on it, then spilled lighter fluid on it, and vaporized it.
Six, my ex husband completely alienated me from my children for almost three year's. That's exactly how he valued my love in my kid's lives, he estranged me from the children I gave birth to like I should be non-existent when in fact a mother's love means everything to a child. My ex-husband knows this for he is a mama's boy himself so what the hell is going on here? What's the twist? Does this man just need some serious mental help himself? Maybe he is a narcissus..... He always did say that his claim to fame was being diabolical.
Honestly, I don't even care about that man anymore, just that my children are still exposed to him at this moment.
I just want my kid's to know exactly how much I care for them. I wish they knew, but they don't, and it hurts that I can't tell them every day how much I adore them, or be able to look them in the eye and see if they are ok. It kills me inside as a mother, I feel so lost and disconnected from my loves.
That is the God honest truth. Some people are just user's and abusers. God has put me here to be a martyr and example to all these families that are currently suffering due to wrongful prosecution. The morality and ethics that are being overlooked and dismissed has brought upon injustices within the family infrastructure. I will write and document my story to the world in hopes that people may know how vindictive people like my X are getting away with alienating loving parents like B from their children.
